I thought it would be interesting to look at the origins of the wedding ceremony. Here are the origins of some key aspects of the ceremony:
Vows: Derived from medieval Christian rites/religious practices. The origins of the medieval rites are from Roman practices. The practice of exhanging vows was published in the First Book of Common Prayer published in 1549.
Exchange of rings: The tradition of exchanging wedding rings originated with the ancient Egyptians, who used rings of reeds or hemp to symbolize eternity and everlasting love due to their circular shape. The Romans later adopted and formalized this practice which was adopted by the Church of England.
Father giving away the bride: Originates from a time when women were considered their father's property, and a marriage involved a transfer of ownership from her family to her husband, often in exchange for a dowry, such as money or land. The custom traces its roots back to the Roman Empire, where it was a way to ensure the groom was worthy and that the bride's family approved of the union
Wedding feast/reception: The tradition of a wedding cake has roots in Ancient Rome, where wheat or barley cakes were broken over the bride's head to symbolize fertility and prosperity. Before the Reformation, the wedding service included a communion, and the bride and groom would fast before the ceremony. The wedding breakfast was the first meal they shared as a married couple after the ceremony, blessed by the priest. Ritual feasts relating to the Winter Soltice and Spring Equinox date back to pagan pre Christianity times.